Loving Someone Who Loves Someone Else

Love is blessing of God and unfortunately everyone is not lucky to get this blessing. If you love someone who loves someone else, you are not alone because every second a couple is facing this situation.

It is very hard to letting go your love for someone else just because he/she loves to any other person. It is common in this modern age especially in youth where relationships are changes at every moment. Mostly college/University lovers think their temporary crush is true love but other partner refuses to accept because of his/her love for someone else.

Well, luckily I have this blog where I can literally write anything and hide from the world.


Just a week or two I came to know the she is interested in someone else (yeah, even after pursuing for almost a year or so!) But still thinking about it is hurtful. You play nice you try and change for what she wants but still you don’t meet her criteria, you talk day in day out, but still you don’t. She/He is all you want.

I didn’t think it would hurt actually but it does, slightly.

Anyway, as I said, she is everything a person would want or want to be. Loving someone doesn’t specifically mean that they have to give you the same thing back. Come on! It is not about give and take, its about if both of you are really having a mutual feeling about each other.

Moreover, I believe, more than wanting her, I respect her and her happiness and this must be enough for the person who has feelings towards someone.

So Tried talking out with my Foster Mum, who I really happen to be sharing a lot with of late and very open, and she told me that:

  1. If you think your love is true, give it sometime because it is better to live with the fact that she is not into you, accept then give yourself some time.
  2. Keep your friendship with your lover because friendship is long lasting than any love. Am working to be her Friend without makasiriko.
  3. Be loyal with your friendship and try to realize him/her about your stand and how the rejection made you feel, again no makasiriko

She is a gift to the world that’s all I can say.

Lakini Otile Brown Pia aliimba Anayekupenda Haumpendi Anapenda Mwingine anayependa Mwingine. Anyway ni hayo tu kwa sasa.