An ex is an ex for a reason. There’s a reason why you guys broke up and it should be kept that way. Whether it was a mutual break up, they broke up with you, or you broke up with them for a reason. If your ex tries to be friends with you.. I’m sorry, but it’s never going to work out. They are in your past and they should be kept there. Don’t get me wrong, in a year or a few years later you guys want to be friends ONCE ALL THE FEELINGS ARE GONE and you BOTH HAVE COMPLETELY MOVED ON from each other then try it. But I think you can’t be friends with someone you just recently broke up with.
 Klodya Daoud said “An EX is an EXample of what you don’t want in your future.” 

Kendrick Coke said “Dating an ex is the equivalent…

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Betrayal Is the only truth that sticks


It’s hard to tell who has your back, from who has it long enough just to stab you in it . I no longer understand the sweetness of friendship. Some decades ago friendship was the sweetest thing. Friends could defend each other like a brother depends her sister, but with the Era of today friends are minimal and we got alot of frenemies. You get decieved by how they treat you. You share everything with them only later you realise that they were wolves in sheep’s clothing.

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.On individual grounds am sure I would forgive an enemy who insults me on my face and tells me Shee I hate you, if I had gun I would fire it on and see your carass rot. It would be so hard for me to forgive a friend that I always counted…

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Rape culture


Wendy went out to the grocery store after going to the gym, she was wearing leggings, a sports bra and an unzipped jacket. As she was walking around the store people gave her dirty looks and made comments like she was asking for it, she’ll get what’s coming to her and even a mom told her young daughter that this is how girls who ask for it dress. This is an example of rape culture. Rape Culture is very dominant in our society through rape myths, victim blaming and a lack of knowledge about the crime. 1 in 5 women will be a survivor of rape, and 1 in  2 women will be survivor of some form of sexual violence. To put that into perspective, in Russian Roulette you have a 1 in 6 chance of being shot. You have a greater chance of being attacked and harmed walking down…

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Love Story



we all dream of love,of being loved,of being able to love. isnt love a beautiful thing?

so as beautiful as love in itself may be the beauty of a true blue love story always has its own shine. so what makes a love story so beautiful so we rand so full of every emotion known to man. well for first it takes two individuals to be ready to take this amazing ride. so if you are not ready for love and not ready to accept the whole package that comes with it …well your story is going to be one hell of a ride, happy ending is not promised in any story but when it starts unwillingness well most of the times the outcome isnt as what we dream of .

so if we get past the first hurdle of finding two such individuals then comes the next part and that…

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